There is no shortage of advice about how to live. While Brooks conceded that giving advice is how he makes a living, both panelists were skeptical about the benefits of being told what to do. “I’m a philosopher, and the first thing I do is make a bunch of distinctions,” Callard said, before distinguishing between counsel from a trusted friend, which may be valuable, and ready-made advice from a stranger, which generally is not.
Fishbach, the Jeffrey Breakenridge Keller Professor of Behavioral Science and Marketing, staked out her disciplinary territory: “Agnes, as a philosopher, started with distinctions. I start with data.” She cited experiments suggesting that giving advice is actually more beneficial than receiving it: One study showed that middle school students struggling with homework improved more if asked to give advice to peers than if provided advice by experimenters, and similar results have been found in adults struggling with unemployment.
Methodological differences became a theme of the evening. According to Callard, author of the book Aspiration: The Agency of Becoming (Oxford University Press, 2018), individuals are responsible for becoming who they are through a process of bringing new values into view and aspiring to live according them. If this is right, individual agency plays a crucial role in projects of self-transformation.
This all sounded a bit subjective to Fishbach, who prefers to view human growth through the lens of environmental influence: “I have many years of practice explaining people’s behavior without using their personality,” she told Callard. “I would like to encourage you to just try it for a while. It really opens your mind. Just think about interventions for others and for yourself that help you grow.”
For his part, Brooks construed personal growth more as surrender than aspiration. “Most people have gone through some valley in their lives, which they say is ‘the transformational moment,’” he said. “You get to a point where you soften some of the thick soil, the crusty soil you’ve built on top of yourself through life. And so it feels more like going deeper into yourself rather than a shifting from being one thing to another thing.”
The next Meeting of the Minds discussion, entitled “Why We Disagree,” will take place on Feb. 6, 2020 and will feature Prof. Emir Kamenica of Chicago Booth and Asst. Prof. Ginger Schulthe of the Department of Philosophy. The conversation will be moderated by TV anchor and reporter Marion Brooks.
—Adapted from a story that first appeared on the University of Chicago Magazine.
—Read the transcript from the event here.